Planning on RLE the next few months, any experiences good or bad?

I'm a 48M, who has worn glasses all my life, first thing i put on when i wake up and last thing i take off before i sleep since i was probably 4. I have astigmatism and am farsighted at a +6 i believe, and am wanting as much independence I can get from glasses with good quality vision. I don't mind wearing reading glasses to read a book if i can get some independence from them while using my computer for work, watching TV, being able to see my phone, using my laptop on the couch, and being able to do active things like travelling without glasses. Currently, without my glasses i see, but nothing is in focus, nothing is sharp and from my recent RLE consultations my eyes are pretty healthy. I know I don't have cataracts yet but I've been thinking of corrective surgery forever since Lasik has not been an option for me.

I've had 3 RLE consultations in the Seattle area here, and they've suggested different lenses, here's my experience of the 3 consultations i've had.

1) Nice facility, seemed modern and they do a lot of procedures with i believe 1 surgeon. They said I was a good candidate for the procedure and suggested the Panoptix Multifocal at the initial consultation with the optometrist. Through some more questions they confirmed that they could do a Toric version of the PanOptix or Odyssey in my case, i have a follow up appointment with the surgeon to talk more about the lenses.

2) Wasn't the most impressed with this facility, but I also had this consultation at one of their satellite office, so maybe their location for the procedure will be better, they also just have 1 surgeon performing the surgery. I did appreciate the conversation with the optometrist though, she was very conservative, really wanted me to understand the risks and really emphasized that I was doing this as a younger candidate. After similar pre-measurements she suggested the Light Adjustable Lens, but emphasized that I should talk to the surgeon for his suggestion, so I have another appointment to meet the surgeon and get a better idea.

3) Nice facility as well, actually felt the most comfortable of being up to date and a large practice, they had a number of surgeons there that can do the procedure. Same information that I was told by the previous places and a good balance between telling me the options and watching a video about the risks. Was able to talk to one of the surgeons during this appointment and she mentioned that I was a very good candidate, and though she knew i was younger, she could see why RLE is on the table because of my prescription strength. She also said because I was younger though she would not recommend a Multifocal, and not a Monofocal because i wanted to be independent from glasses as much as possible. So here they are suggesting with the Vivity or Symfony which would minimize (i know it can't be eliminated) nighttime light aberrations and require me to have reading glasses for small print.

These were probably the 3 most well known places in Washington state that I know of, but 3 places and 3 different suggestions. although a multifocal seemed like the common suggestion. Would love to hear people's experiences with these lenses, as I've tried to research as much as i can.

- Panoptix: like the idea of range of focus, but am hesitant about the nighttime glare and halos. I don't drive at night often, but I occasionally do and i don't want to be handicapped when being outside at nighttime.

- Odyssey: I've read this might be a better option than the Panoptix but it will still have some nighttime aberrations, less than the Panoptix, but the ring design is still there.

- Symfony: Was told this is considered an EDOF lens, but also has a ring design so there could be some halos and glares at night. I would also need reading glasses for small print, because it is EDOF though the quality of vision could be better for me.

- Vivity: Similar to Symfony, but perhaps a better nighttime experience because it has less of a ring design .. I read good vision far and intermediate, but would need readers for book reading and detailed work.

- LAL: Don't know much about this one except that it can be adjusted 3 times after the procedure ... although the third place told me LAL's didn't make sense for me with my prescription.

Would love to hear any experiences with the above lenses.

Thanks