Should I rob Merrill or no?

Episode three is really confusing. It seems no matter what I do, Daniel ends up losing his shit, even if I spend the whole episode focusing on the best choices for him. If I agree to the heist, Cassidy will like me less, but I gain brotherhood points with Daniel…but there’s a potential of someone getting hurt or dying either way?? If I don’t agree to the heist, I guess I can pursue a romance path with Cassidy but lose the romance with Finn, and even worse it lowers me and Daniel’s brotherhood score? Can someone guide me on what to do, I want the best ending.

Episode three is really confusing. It seems no matter what I do, Daniel ends up losing his shit, even if I spend the whole episode focusing on the best choices for him. If I agree to the heist, Cassidy will like me less, but I gain brotherhood points with Daniel…but there’s a potential of someone getting hurt or dying either way?? If I don’t agree to the heist, I guess I can pursue a romance path with Cassidy but lose the romance with Finn, and even worse it lowers me and Daniel’s brotherhood score? Can someone guide me on what to do, I want the best ending.