No snow was in sight….

No snow was insight the day. It actually was a warm day and winter had not even started barely fall. When my mother lashed out at me and said she no longer wanted my husband in her driveway because he scratched it when he plowed it. Keep in mind he has plowed it for over 10 years. So on that warm day with no snow was in sight I told her she better fucking get somebody to take care of the snow this winter. Fast forward to today when we’ve got 11 inches of snow sitting in the driveway. When I talk to her, she kept saying stuff like “the mailman won’t bring my mail because my steps are covered”, “I can’t get my trashcan to the curb because my driveway is covered“, “I have to go get blood work this week“. I just ignored her because if I were to bring it up that she was the one who said he scratched her driveway. It would just be a full blown fight, so now I wait until she turns around and blames it on myself anyways. I’m sure she’s going to say something to the effect of how can you let your 84 year-old mother deal with the snow in her driveway?

Narcissistic mothers are really good at making you feel guilty when you did nothing wrong. 😑