Dutch people at events/festivals/concerts

Last Saturday night, I attended an event at The Other Side in Amsterdam, and I couldn’t help but feel frustrated by a certain recurring behavior I’ve noticed at events here. Why, oh why, do so many Dutch people come to live music events just to stand in one spot and chat endlessly with their friends? Worse, some even talk so loudly that they drown out the music and disturb people nearby who are trying to dance or enjoy the performance.

Personally, I buy a ticket to experience live music, dance, and connect with the energy of the crowd—not to listen to nonstop conversations. It feels like the more events I attend in the Netherlands, the more this behavior annoys me, which is disappointing because I truly love the music scene and the talented performers I come to see live.

To Dutch people: Why is this such a common thing at events? Is it cultural or just a lack of awareness?
To everyone else: How do you handle this kind of situation without letting it ruin your night?

Would love to hear your thoughts—especially if you’ve found ways to deal with it in a positive way!