I hate telling everyone my pronouns (They/Them) and people just not caring

I told my parents I'm non-binary and asked them to use my pronouns but they still make no effort to use the proper pronouns. The same thing happens at work I've repeatedly said what my pronouns are and its like people just refuse to use them and I have too much anxiety to keep asking people to use my right pronouns even though it really upsets me and makes me feel not seen.