Lying about trying for pregnancy with gyno so they listen and try to address my PCOS symptoms. Will this backfire?

My friend said that her doctor advised her to lie so she would receive proper treatment for PCOS.

I am losing my hair, my hormones are wack, I’m trying to stop the hair loss mainly. If I tell them I am trying to conceive will this backfire on me or will they be more attentive and less dismissive?

Also, I am considering HRT as birth control got me in this hair loss mess in the first place. Is that a good option for hair loss?

Important note: I technically don’t meet the criteria for PCOS, my periods are too often and I don’t have cysts,

but after taking a short term birth control and then quitting, I have slow hair loss and I am growing hair on face/neck! I may be developing autoimmune disease as well