What bars are fun for 30-40 year olds?

My husband and I are coming there for our anniversary!! We’d like to go to a fun bar that isn’t filled with only single 20 year olds. Maybe even something with fun music and dancing. Which ones do you guys recommend?

Also would love a restaurant recommendation. Something that feels really pretty inside with good food. We went to Aker once and while it was beautiful inside the food was ehhh. Would love a similar vibe but better food.