Help made horrible mistakes.

I am a 26F. And really let my family control my decisions and just seeing the cause. I have 187k in private student loans 7.8 interest. . 1500 a month. A mortgage of 2000 an HOA OF 308. And an upside down car of 500 a month 10% interest. Also the car is upside down. Of course I also utilities food gas. I have very little to save every month. I make 100k.

Any advice to help me?