Why Are We Killing Each Other Over Qabils? Is This the End of Us?

Why are we, as Somalis, so divided over qabils to the point where we're killing each other? I saw a video recently of a guy celebrating after a woman from another clan was killed, and it really made me wonder. What happened to us? Why can’t we see that this hatred is destroying us? Every region is fighting for independence, but are we forgetting that if we keep this up, we might disappear as a people? What’s going on, and when will we wake up?