Major rant: I HATE WEDDING SEASON!

I hating dressing up, I hate having to care about/obsess over what I am going to wear, what jewellery I need! I fucking hate it!!!!! Apparently being dressed in a simple salwar kameez is also never enough anymore. I am not saying I want to wear jeans and tshirt to a wedding function. But why the fuck is a simple plain salwar kameez not enough??? I prefer simple dressing, my husband too prefers simple dressing but all the women around me, my mom, my MIL, most of my girl friends, my cousins always have a lot to say about how I am not dressed enough. I’d go burn all those fancy wedding shops if it was up to me. I don’t care if my neighbours cousin’s daughter had a 6 metre long trailing veil. I don’t want a diamond mangalsutra because the one I have is enough. I don’t care if anyone knows the “correct” way of putting makeup or not and I have zero interest in how costly someone’s saree or lehenga is. I survived my own wedding somehow but did not realise this saaj shringar expectations from me would increase exponentially after I am married. I used to love wearing traditionals but the constant the glorification of fashion/jewellery/makeup is a bit too much and it is getting toxic day by day. Please do not judge fellow women for not being into latest fashion or makeup trends. Fucking stop it.