How come women never interact with me on social media?

Hope this doesn't come off the wrong way. I don't really know any gay people in real life, all my irl friends and acquaintances are straight. I have some online friends who are gay but i never met them. I try to use instagram to socialise with other lesbians as i have a lot of them following me - it's kind of the only way here in my country to find a date or queer friends.. We don't have any events or places such as gay clubs, etc. I've given up on dating apps.

But the thing is, no one ever responds to my stories or interacts in any way besides likes? I get around 300 people watching my stories, how is it possible to not even have one person interested in getting to know me..? I mean sometimes i even make posts saying that i'm looking for friends and - crickets. Zero responses. It's kinda humiliating and embarrassing. I guess it probably comes off as desperate or weird to them though?