Disappointed to my bff

Hi, I just wanna vent out.

Nauna ikasal yung bestfriend ko and I was her MOH. I did everything I could to help her on her wedding. I even sent her my supplier’s list since nauna ako nagplan samin but she booked an all-in-package. I even planned her a bridal shower kahit super busy ko na din since the next few weeks na din ang wedding ko. On her wedding day, super asikaso ako as in parang ako na ang coordinator since palpak yung nakuha nyang package and yaya at the same time. Lahat na. After the wedding, she didn’t say a thing and that’s okay.

On my wedding, she’s one of the abay pero I didn’t even felt her support. Wala ako narinig na kahit “kamusta?” man lang, kahit hindi ko naman need ng help atleast man lang nafeel ko yung concern. No bridal shower for me also buti nalang meron yung sa mga workmates ko. I know bridal shower is just optional however syempre gusto ko padin matry naman. And i was expecting from her.

The wedding day came and super tamlay lang ng aura nya. Halatang hindi sya happy sa outcome ng wedding ko. Maybe because mine is well planned and maayos compared to her. I don’t know pero sabi din ng hubby ko, pati daw yung hubby nya eh matamlay din nung nakita yung samin. Never man lang silang nagpost ng picture re sa wedding eh nung ako kumpleto sila ng reels ng POV ko. May photobooth pic pala silang pinost pero they cropped our names out of it. Minimalist na nga lang, crinop pa. Wala naman kaming mukha dun. 🥹

Di naman ako nakikipagcompete kung sino mas magandang kasal eh. I just feel sooooooo bad and realized that people will not reciprocate your efforts no matter how hard you try. Kung alam ko lang, sana guest nalang sila. Parang na-evil eye ako 🥹