Gender is complicated, who do you date?

Really struggling with this one today. I don't feel totally like a "man," i feel somewhere between non-binary and man. Historically i've only dated queer women. I guess i could be open to dating straight women but not sure if they'd be ok with the fact that i don't ever plan to have bottom surgery. Is anyone here a little more fluid in their gender and dating a lesbian/queer woman? I've had top surgery and am on a low dose of T, if that makes a difference which i feel like it might