is prom and shit really worth it?

i hate school events. they're loud, i've only went to homecoming twice, (freshman year at my previous school and junior year at my current school) hated it. albeit my current school has a bunch of money to put towards everything (i live in a really nice area, almost everyone at my school was born with a silver spoon firmly down their throat.) i don't know if i wanna go, especially because im a bit of an outsider and have a small circle of friends. the only reason im considering going is because i know my friends and family will be extremely pushy about it. should i go even though im not sure ill enjoy it?