How to make the most out of pension

So I didn't pay pension till 35. I am now 44. Well I did pay pension when I first qualified as a nurse (in UK) in 2005 but stopped paying before 2 years and took out the money... Because that's the kind of thing you do when you are young 🤣 Luckily my husband and I bought a house in Manchester at 21 so made up for that shitty financial choice! Anyways... Situation now is 8 years left on mortgage. We were overpaying but built and extension and increased cost of living had to cut back on that. But still 8 years remaining so that is good. I now max out my pension contributions. Currently have around 120k and then a HSE pension of 6k. I contribute about €1590 a month and my employer contributes €485 (10% of my basic salary). Happy with the amount I am paying in. I have 50-50 division of high risk and lower risk. Should I put more percentage in high risk? Just to add... My husband is a stay at home dad/carer for our autistic son so this pension will have to cover the two of us!