My tires were slashed, she was caught on camera. Now what?

I’m not here for judgement so please leave that at the door. I hate myself enough already.

About 2 years ago my husband and I were separated, I began speaking with another man. We kissed but didn’t go beyond that. He was not with his kids mother at the time, but she found out who I was and stalked my social media accounts, saw that I was still married technically and messaged my husband. My life has been a mess since then but I am working so hard on repairing my marriage and earning back my husband’s trust. I cut off all communication with the other man, blocked his number and all social media accounts. He began trying to contact me again this past summer calling me on a blocked number. I told him I want nothing to do with him, I’m with my husband. He did not leave me alone. He’s back with his kids mother but she hits him, he was trying to guilt me I’m sure of it. I’d go off on him and he’d leave me alone but then always came back. I didn’t tell my husband because I was working so hard on his trust I didn’t want to go back steps we’ve made, which I know now was the wrong decision. In the fall she looked at his phone records saw he was talking to me and she showed up at my house. He didn’t know where I lived so I can only assume she stalked my info. My husband saw the phone records and said that you can obviously tell it’s him reaching out to me.

All was quiet for another month or so and then he makes a fake account and reaches out to me on that. Not even 10 minutes go by this woman EMAILS me pictures of them together and they’re TikTok convos of them sending loving messages back and forth. I told them Both to stop contacting me before I file a restraining order. I immediately called my husband and told him and went to the police station. They said I would have to go to family court and file an order of protection against him and request her be attached. She has threatened me multiple times, I have proof of her telling my husband if she catches me at the grocery stores I frequent it’s on basically. That was 2 months ago.

So yesterday I go to the store with my 5 year old son, walking in I pass her walking out. She has a smirk on her face. I don’t think anything of it I just walk in and do my shopping. 20 minutes later I walk out and my 2 front tires are completely flat. I call the police they show up, take my statement and check video footage. One of them drove my son and I home. Mind you we are in the middle of a snowstorm. An hour later the officer calls me back says they can arrest her on criminal mischief. They show up at my house I sign the statement, and you see her the video park her car infront of mine and go to each of my front tires.

My question is what happens now? I was frazzled and didn’t get a copy of the statement or video, and I can’t remember the officers name. Will I be notified if she’s arrested? If there is a court date am I required to go? I just want to move on from this all. I want her in jail but I don’t want to have to go to court. I want to be done with these people and continue working on myself as a mother, wife and a human.

Thank you if you read this far.