Not getting ahead

Is anyone else just stuck? Every time things start to get back to normal, something else has to pop up and find some way to mess it up for me. On top of bills, then a massive one pops up, car breaks down, lose my job, Mrs in Hospital, kid has a big bill for something extra curricula. There's always something that stops me from getting ahead and I have to be the one with answers. It's tiring, it's never ending and I'm so over it.