Women running away

I want to know stories of retainers who have had women run away from them, even after dating them.

I have this theory some women run away because they are scared about being around you for longer as they will become deeply attached to you, in love with you, and thus forced (by this attraction they feel) to submit or be completely dependent on you.

That’s why women who are attracted give you eyes as if they were scared, because they haven’t experienced such intensity before and are overwhelmed by it.

They would rather run away and get with a man that is not so powerful, and thus be able to manipulate him and leave whenever they feel like he is not good enough.

But with a man holding his power, even if they try to leave, they wouldn’t be able to leave if they stay for longer, that’s why they would rather escape as soon as they can.

Does this make sense?

I had this happen to me but I want to contrast information to check if I’m just making stuff up.