Feeling nervous at the thought that this might be the year I will get married idk why? Are my feelings valid?

I(26F) have been dating this amazing guy (26M) since almost 2.5 years now. He’s a family friend and our dads are school friends. He comes from an amazing family and I honestly feel so lucky that our fairytale like love story is actually getting real.

We told our parents about us last year in Feb and they have been excited ever since and wanted us to get married last year itself but we wanted some time to settle in our jobs.

Most likely we have our wedding (unofficially) scheduled for November this year. Unofficially because we haven’t booked any venue, or anything. Me and my bf just selected a date we liked for us.

But the moment 2025 came it started feeling very real and I started feeling nervous about all the changes I will have to make including shifting cities and to his home, new family, new job, etc.

Plus none of my friends are even close to getting married rn so I feel like maybe I am rushing Idk.

When I shared my feeling with him, he felt a little hurt but was supportive and told me to take time and think what I want. I feel really confused.

I know I want to get married eventually, I am confused that will it feel this daunting any time or maybe just rn. Looking for anyone to share their experience please