UPDATE: I(28F) found these suspicious messages on my husband(36M) phone and unsure how to interpet?

Link to original post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/VxFOO67iZr

Not sure if this is the correct way to do this!

I let the feelings brew for a few days and gathered my thoughts. We had a 30 minute argument in which his “excuse” was “she was taking 9000 videos a day of her making bread, I’m pretty sure she just got a boob job and her tits were hanging out.”

I told him words matter just as much as actions and he said it never would have gotten that far.

Anyways, I did kick him out. Not sure how long, but I need to be able to see if I can forget about it (unlikely) and right now seeing him just pisses me off.

For those concerned, I do see a therapist biweekly. I don’t seek this behavior out. Believe me when I say I never ever saw this coming. Not all monsters have claws, some wear soft smiles and call you sweetheart 🤷‍♀️