Dating in the Bay Area: Is it really this expensive?

I’ve been trying to navigate the dating scene in the Bay Area, and honestly, it feels like an uphill battle. It seems like there’s this unspoken expectation that every meal on a date needs to cost $200 or more. I get wanting to go somewhere nice, but it’s frustrating when not meeting that expectation gets you an annoyed look in return.

Am I the only one feeling this way? Are these just some bad experiences, or is this actually the norm around here? How do you all handle this without breaking the bank every time?

Would love to hear your thoughts and maybe even some creative date ideas that don’t revolve around splurging.

Edited:
Not humblebragging as someone suggested. I have no saving, I have no house. I have a regular 9-5 job with high pressure. Thanks for all your suggestions.

2nd Edited :

Thank you all for your good, mediocre, weird, impractical, and joking suggestions. I’ve learned a lot today, and I feel like I’m having a better night than any I’ve spent with strange women. Thank you all!

Here’s a little fun idea: for my next date, I’ll take her to the South SF Costco for a hot dog and a soft drink.

3rd update:

After reading over 100 replies. I think I've met wrong group of people. Will try to adjust it.