Are twin flames real?

What do you guys think about this whole twin flame phenomenon? After learning about this new show on Netflix called Escaping Twin Flames, I have been persuaded to think the concept is an excuse for abusive behavior in narcissistic relationships to “grow” spiritually and these people who make good money who paid these scumbags for their coaching that took advantage of them. I tried to go to the Twin flames subreddit to discuss this but the mods over there are just something else and it’s another rabbit hole of its own. It’s mostly women that are victims of this theory, and it’s horrible. Let me know

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