Help, I can’t find a soulslike I enjoy

Is it only me who cannot get into soulslikes. I have played every souls game multiple times yet I hate almost every soulslike I play. I enjoyed Lies of p and hollow knight howrver after trying mortal shell, Nioh, Thymesia etc. I cannot get into any of them. I don’t know if I just have an inner hidden agenda against them because they aren’t a real souls and that in the back of my mind makes me likes them less but I dislike every soulslike I attempt besides LoP and HK. I wanted to try out lords of the fallen and wo long, maybe try nioh 2 but I really disliked nioh 1. It just seems like they concentrate on Difficukty more than anything else but I could just be lying to myself and have to play more of the games I don’t like and it may get better.